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How to Give an Effective and Complete Apology

We’ve heard several at least arguable apologies over the past week from #RyanLochte to #DonaldTrump to #Le’VeonBell. This year, we’ve also heard from #BrockTurner, newspapers, and a number of quick-thumbed social media commenters. So few of these feel complete, even when they are sincere. To most of us, “I’m sorry” and an excuse isn’t much of an apology at all. It…

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The Guilt is Ours

I’m sorry that I didn’t notice you were black when we were playing at the mall. I was just happy to have someone my size to be with. I didn’t know our lives were so different. I’m sorry I didn’t notice you were treated differently in school. We shared the same buses, free lunch program,…

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Who are “They”?

A loved one picked me up from the airport one December. As we drove through the neighborhood, we enjoyed the colorful lights and decorations in various yards. Snowmen, Santa Claus, reindeer, menorahs, and nativity scenes co-existed on the grounds where Native Americans once hunted and gathered food. LED lights replaced the candles of pioneer days….

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Don’t Be Mad at Me

Don’t be mad at me. I prayed for you today. Then, I meditated and set an intention or took a stand that you would have a life more amazing than you imagine possible. Don’t be mad at me. I wished you a Merry Christmas or happy day in 12 languages or 11 that weren’t your…

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Are You Stuck with All of the Terms in that “Standard Agreement”?

If you’ve been following Bonne D. Graham on SAP Radio’s Coffee Break with Game Changers, you know I’ve been part of a roundtable discussion with my esteemed colleagues, Nina Kaufman and Renee L. Duff. I naturally raised the issue of worker misclassification in at least two of the three shows we’ve recorded so far. It’s very…